My four-year-old has an advanced sense of diversionary tactics. In fact his ability to divert attention and make me laugh is so advanced, so perfect, that any 13-year-old would trade his Wii for my son’s talent to drop his mother’s jaw to the floor and clutch my mid section in an attempt not to laugh [...]
August 18th, 2008 | Tricia | 15 comments | ContinuedParenting
Over Sharing and Name Calling on a FIRST Date
People tend to tell me things. Lots of things. Sometimes inappropriate things. It’s called OVER SHARING and It has nothing to do with whether or not I’m a nice person; it’s because I’m a trained listener. Yes, I’m serious. When you’ve spent lots of time interviewing people you tend to develop this weird all-ears [...]
August 16th, 2008 | Tricia | 11 comments | ContinuedBully Busters
“I told my son, ‘You cannot continue to run from bullies. You have to stand up for yourself if you want them to leave you alone,’” Tianna Onyebuagu testified during her son, Kenneth London’s murder trial in Tennessee.
There’s been an endemic growth of bullying in our society that has left parents and educators at a loss on how to effectively deal with the onslaught.
August 15th, 2008 | Tricia | 18 comments | Continued
Emotional Equality in Parenting
Are your relationships with your parents emotionally equal?
I’ve always had a different type of relationship with my mother than my father. It’s not disproportionate in how much I love and respect them, but the level of emotional intimacy is very different.
August 12th, 2008 | Tricia | 9 comments | ContinuedA Parental Conundrum
Today I found myself in a bit of a parenting conundrum, and when my son asked me to explain another parent’s behavior to him, I was stumbling for words.
August 1st, 2008 | Tricia | 12 comments | ContinuedConversations with an Infertile in a Fertile World
There are certain conversations that take place on a fairly routine basis, with some variations, but the theme is the same. I’m never quite sure how to react. Sometimes I shrug them off. Sometimes I blurt out too many truths. Sometimes I just get really sad and quiet. Today I’m ranting on my blog. So, [...]
July 26th, 2008 | Tricia | 23 comments | Continued
No Soap Needed
With today’s economy being what it is, we’re all looking for ways to pinch pennies. At our house, we’ve decided to stop splurging on things like soap.
July 25th, 2008 | Tricia | 11 comments | Continued
He’s Outgrowing Me
Aaron has recently gone through another growth spurt. His legs are long and lean, the summer pajamas we bought only weeks ago already fit differently, and he’s tipping the scale toward a new multiple of ten.
Last night he wanted me to carry him to bed, which of course I did. He felt so heavy in [...]
Sunshine for Lunch
We rarely eat at fast food restaurants so it’s not surprising that my four-year-old doesn’t know about the children’s menu at McDonald’s. But a few months ago we met my son’s playmate for lunch under the big arches.
I ordered my little guy a Happy Meal and when he heard me place the order, he hugged [...]
Why Attack Instead of Seek to Understand: The Drama of Infertility
Can someone please explain this to me? Are we developing into a society of heartless morons? Is it the majority or the minority that refuses to learn how to agree to disagree without going for the jugular? Does it feel better to purposefully hurt someone than it does to try to understand?
Recently The New York [...]





